couple/Marriage Counselling Singapore Infidelity Counselling
Specializing in Relationship Challenges
By a Certified Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Supervisor & Therapist
infidelity counselling singapore
healing from Infidelity/ affair/betrayal trauma
When you discover that you are not “the only one” to your partner, it can feel as though your world is collapsing. The person you love the most hurts you the worst. The reactions can include intense distress, marked by feelings of anger, hurt, sadness, and helplessness. However, these responses vary from person to person. At the core, you might sense betrayal and abandonment, feeling that trust has been broken in the relationship. Questions may arise such as, "Can I trust you again?", "Can I ever count on you in the future?"
If you were the offending partner, seeing your spouse's pain due to your infidelity doesn't bring you any sense of joy but causes hurt to you as well. Being confronted about an affair can be exceptionally challenging to overcome. In the aftermath of infidelity, all the positive contributions and underlying relationship problems may seem insignificant. The situation is fraught with complex emotions, making it a difficult journey for anyone involved.
Infidelity certainly crushes marriages and relationships. Yet it is not a death sentence. I've had the privilege of providing guidance and support through infidelity counseling to numerous couples who managed to recover, heal, and even forge stronger relationships than before with the same partner.
Of course, the process of recovery is far from easy. After the trust has been broken, the recovery you need is more than just determination, willingness, commitment, and patience. However, what truly matters is the help of a skilled and experienced professional couple therapist trained in Infidelity Counselling. Such a therapist provides a safe space, unwavering support, and impartiality, while also adopting a non-judgmental approach and validating both partners' distress. Additionally, their expertise is essential in guiding you step-by-step through the journey of affair recovery.
Don't lose hope! Give your marriage the chance to address the wounds caused by the affair. Embrace this moment as an opportunity to not only overcome the crisis but also to flourish within your relationship and for personal growth as an individual!
Outcomes: Forgiveness, Reconciliation & Reconnection
About US
Winny Lu Aldridge, Certified EFCT, EFIT, and EFFT (Emotionally Focused Couple, Individual, and Family Therapy) Supervisor and Therapist
Winny has been practicing counselling since 2007, with extensive experience in a wide range of issues, particularly in supporting distressed couples and individuals facing relationship challenges. Her specialization includes managing high conflict, communication problems, infidelity, betrayal trauma, ambivalence in relationships, childhood trauma, and family dynamics.
Her primary therapeutic approach is grounded in EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy), an evidence-based approach based on attachment theory. She works with couples, individuals, and families to address various issues and enhance emotional connections.
As a Certified EFT Supervisor and Therapist affiliated with the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT), Winny possesses extensive expertise in her field. Additionally, she contributes to the field by teaching a Couple Counseling Module at a local university and managing The Singapore Community for Emotionally Focused Therapy (SGEFT) which provides supervision and training to therapists and other mental health professionals learning EFT.
She adopts a therapeutic approach that emphasizes acceptance, empathy, genuineness, respect, and a non-judgmental attitude.
Over the years, Winny has received numerous positive feedbacks, particularly for the effectiveness of her therapeutic alliance and highlighting success stories from her clients. Her dedication has helped many individuals and couples rediscover hope, reconnect, and achieve reconciliation. Meanwhile, She has always found great fulfillment in journeying with her clients.
Language Proficiency: English and Mandarin
Clinical Services
Individuals
Individuals
Individuals
- Stuck in relationship problems
- Depression and Anxiety
- Healing After a Break-up
- Insecurities due to childhood and negative past experience
Couples
Individuals
Individuals
- Conflict and Differences
- Breakdown in Communication
- Lack of Emotional Connection
- Relationship Challenges
- Infidelity, cheating, and Extramarital Affair
Families
Individuals
Families
- Family Relationship issues
- Adjustment after life changes (divorce, relocation, grief & loss)
- Parent-child tension include relationship with adult-children
