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Couple counselling singapore Infidelity Counselling singapore

Specializing in Relationship Challenges

By Certified Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Supervisor & Therapists

Couple counselling singapore Infidelity Counselling singapore

Specializing in Relationship Challenges

By Certified Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Supervisor & Therapists

professional Marriage or Couple counselling Singapore

Couple Counselling for conflicted or emotionally disconnected couple

We help couples break negative communication patterns, heal emotional wounds, and rebuild stronger, more resilient relationships. Our approach is grounded in experiential therapy, guiding partners to express emotions, deepen understanding, and reconnect with empathy and tenderness. Many have found renewed clarity and connection through our sessions — a meaningful step toward lasting change.

From Disconnection to Connection
From Blaming to Take Responsibility
From Self-Protection to Risk-Taking
From Focusing on Other's Flaws to Own Fears and Longing

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Couple counselling for infidelity or extramarital affair

Couple Counselling for conflicted or emotionally disconnected couple

Discovering infidelity can be deeply shattering, for both partners. The emotional pain, loss of trust, guilt, and confusion can feel overwhelming. Our infidelity counselling offers a safe space for couples to process the hurt, rebuild trust, and begin healing. With the right support, many couples not only recover but emerge stronger, with deeper understanding and renewed connection.

Don't lose hope. Give your marriage the opportunity to address the wounds caused by infidelity. This can be a turning point—not just to survive the crisis, but to grow and thrive within your relationship and as a person.

Learn more about Infidelity Counselling or healing from betrayal trauma

couple Counselling for ambivalent or uncertain couples

Couple Counselling for conflicted or emotionally disconnected couple

couple Counselling for ambivalent or uncertain couples

Feeling unsure about whether to stay in a relationship or part ways is a tough place to be. Couple counselling Singapore provides a safe, supportive space to explore emotions, improve communication, and gain clarity. Using evidence-based approaches like Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (EFCT), we help partners understand unhelpful patterns, express deeper needs, and make thoughtful decisions—whether that means rebuilding the relationship or parting with respect.

No one is forced to stay or leave. Instead, the focus is on working together to make the best decision for your future. Discover how a marriage therapist in Singapore can guide you through this process. Whether you are married or preparing to marry, support from a qualified relationship therapist is key.

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principal therapist

Winny Lu Aldridge, Certified EFCT, EFIT, and EFFT (Emotionally Focused Couple, Individual, and Family Therapy) Trainer Candidate, Supervisor and Therapist

Winny has been practising counselling since 2007, bringing a wealth of experience in supporting couples and individuals dealing with various relationship issues. She specialises in helping those facing high conflict, communication breakdowns, infidelity, betrayal trauma, ambivalence in relationships, childhood trauma, and family dynamics. Her compassionate approach provides valuable support to those navigating distressing situations, helping them find clarity and healing.

Winny’s primary therapeutic approach is grounded in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), an evidence-based method rooted in attachment theory. She works with couples, individuals, and families to address a wide range of issues, fostering deeper emotional connections and healing. As a marriage counsellor, Winny helps couples navigate their most challenging moments and build healthier, more enduring relationships.

As a Certified EFT Trainer-in-Training, Supervisor and Therapist affiliated with the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT), Winny has developed extensive expertise in the field. She also contributes to the profession by teaching a Couple Counselling Module at a local university and overseeing The Singapore Community for Emotionally Focused Therapy (SGEFT), where she provides supervision and training to therapists and mental health professionals learning EFT.

She has been providing Infidelity Counselling Singapore for many years and has also conducted professional training titled "Healing from Infidelity with EFT," where she shares her clinical experience, knowledge, and therapeutic skills with other marriage counsellors and couple therapists supporting individuals and couples through infidelity in Singapore and Southeast Asia.

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New Marriage with the Same Partner

Injured Partner

Our marriage hit rock bottom struggling with infidelity, gambling debts and suicides. Just as I was about to give up in this marriage, I approached Winny. I had wanted to seek counselling for myself. Little did I expect that Winny ask to see my spouse too.

She put us on individual counselling sessions for a period of time. When situations were stable and we were more ready, she brought us together into couples counselling sessions.

Winny has journeyed with us through these most difficult times of our lives. She even met up our eldest boy, who was quite affected by us, to counsel him. She has the heart to want to help and make things better for the whole family.

Sometimes there were things in my head that I could not seem to rationalize. She can always help me to straighten my thoughts. It’s very easy to talk to her as I find that she grasps the situations fast and right.

Through the couple counselling sessions, Winny helped us to see the wrong dynamics we had in our marriage in the past. Our marriage took a turn for the better.

We are in a new marriage with the same partner.

We can communicate with each other better and

our children are happy.

We are very thankful to Winny for believing in us and helping us to find healing and restoration when our marriage seems shattered beyond repair. I would recommend anyone who needs infidelity counselling to Winny.

(Name withheld for privacy reasons)

Injuring Partner

Injured Partner

My life went into the dark when I was engaged in an extramarital affair. I subjected myself to lies, heavy gambling, neglecting work and even suicide threats. Most importantly I put my wife and family through an enduring and devastating time.

My marriage was on the brink of an end,

until Winny helped us to think rationally and understand the roots of our issues.

I had never been an open-minded or vocal person,

often unwilling to share. In the sessions of individual counselling, Winny provided a safe environment for me to share and express my feelings. It helped me understood how important my wife and family are to me.

During couple counselling, Winny provided us a safe platform to express and understand more about each other’s true feelings and intent behind our words and actions.

It helped to bring us to know we truly want our marriage to be. Winny had also been professional and patience with me throughout the course of the counselling, not giving it up, even as I had repeatedly lied and failed.

She has kept and persisted with us throughout this infidelity counselling journey. My wife and I now had found the right dynamics in our marriage now, thanks to Winny. We are grateful to Winny in helping us heal, restore, open up and build our marriage.

(Name withheld for privacy reasons)

Rebuilding Our Marriage After Infidelity

My seemingly perfect life took a 180-degree turn when I discovered my husband’s affair in 2024. For the sake of our young children, I decided to give him one chance to salvage our relationship when he begged for forgiveness. That is when we started infidelity counselling with Winny.

After uncovering the affair, I tried to cope by keeping myself busy and suppressing any unpleasant feelings. Winny quickly recognized this and guided me in identifying and unpacking negative emotions such as fear, resentment, and disappointment, allowing myself to grieve. Over time, I found myself handling triggers much better with this approach.

The biggest question after the affair was—why did he do it? With Winny’s facilitation, we pinpointed that my husband’s tendency to avoid conflicts was a key factor, possibly stemming from his childhood experiences. Whenever we disagreed, instead of confronting the issue, he would escape and seek relief from other sources, such as alcohol and ultimately, the affair.

Once we recognized this, Winny provided practical strategies to navigate our marriage conflicts. She taught me how to communicate more effectively by expressing my feelings clearly instead of resorting to accusations. She also created a safe space for us to reflect on our arguments and helped us identify destructive patterns that were damaging our connection. Through regular marriage counselling sessions with Winny, we were able to have meaningful discussions like never before, deepening our bond.

My husband became a changed man after the affair. Before it happened, he had been blinded by worldly pursuits. Even though we spent a lot of time together as a family and as a couple, he was often emotionally absent. The affair became a revelation and a turning point for him—it made him realize what he could have lost: his family, his everything. Now, he sees me with a new level of admiration and has become a more present and loving husband and father.

(Name withheld for privacy reasons)

Clinical Services

Individual Counselling - Rediscover Yourself!

Individuals

Stuck in relationship problems
Depression and Anxiety
Healing After a Break-up
Insecurities due to childhood and negative past experience

Couple Counselling - Strengthen Your Bond

Couples

Individuals

Conflict and Differences
Breakdown in Communication
Lack of Emotional Connection
Relationship Challenges
Infidelity, cheating, and Extramarital Affair

Family Counselling - Rebuilding Connection Together

Families

Clinical Supervision for Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Family relationship issues
Adjustment after life changes (divorce, relocation, grief & loss)
Parent-child tension includes relationships with adult-children

Clinical Supervision for Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Provide EFIT, EFCT, and EFFT Clinical Supervision
Focus on EFT Conceptualization
Help you to improve your interventions/skills
Certification and growth support

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Couple counselling singapore Infidelity Counselling singapore

Couple counselling singapore Infidelity Counselling singapore

Welcome to Just2Hearts Counselling! We offer Couple/ Marriage/ Infidelity/Relationship Counselling

professional Marriage or Couple counselling Singapore

Couple Counselling for conflicted or emotionally disconnected couple

Couple Counselling for conflicted or emotionally disconnected couple

Couple Counselling for conflicted or emotionally disconnected couple

Couple counselling for infidelity or extramarital affair

Couple Counselling for conflicted or emotionally disconnected couple

Couple Counselling for conflicted or emotionally disconnected couple

couple Counselling for ambivalent or uncertain couples

Couple Counselling for conflicted or emotionally disconnected couple

couple Counselling for ambivalent or uncertain couples

principal therapist

Winny Lu Aldridge, Certified EFCT, EFIT, and EFFT (Emotionally Focused Couple, Individual, and Family Therapy) Trainer Candidate, Supervisor and Therapist

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New Marriage with the Same Partner

Injured Partner

Injured Partner

Injured Partner

Injuring Partner

Injured Partner

Injured Partner

Rebuilding Our Marriage After Infidelity

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Clinical Services

Individuals

Individuals

Individuals

Couples

Individuals

Individuals

Families

Clinical Supervision for Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Clinical Supervision for Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Clinical Supervision for Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Clinical Supervision for Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Clinical Supervision for Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

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