Specializing in Relationship Challenges
By Certified Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Supervisor & Therapists
Couple counselling or marriage counselling, can help you and your partner break free from negative communication patterns and resolve recurring relationship issues. With professional guidance, you’ll have the opportunity to reconnect and develop healthier ways to communicate with tenderness, empathy, and understanding. If you’re searching for "marriage counselling near me," this could be the crucial step towards finding clarity, emotional renewal, and a stronger bond.
Our approach to couples and marriage counselling is grounded in experiential marriage therapy, focusing on fostering emotional change to help couples reconnect. We aim to guide couples through a transformative journey, enabling them to explore and reshape their emotional landscape together. Throughout the sessions, partners gain greater awareness of their underlying emotions, learn to express their needs and feelings openly, and develop a deeper understanding of each other. This process supports couples in rebuilding their emotional connection, creating a stronger, healthier relationship.
Our work has been noted in many marriage counselling in Singapore review sections for its effectiveness in promoting deep emotional healing.
It not only helps heal past wounds and resolve misunderstandings but also lays the foundation for a stronger, more resilient relationship. Our goal is to help couples experience a profound shift in their emotional connection, turning moments of conflict into opportunities for growth and deeper bonding. Our marriage counselling sessions focus on growth that is lasting, not surface-level.
When you discover that you are not "the only one" to your partner, it can feel like your world is falling apart. The person you love the most has caused the deepest pain. The emotional reactions to such a revelation can be overwhelming—ranging from anger, sadness, and frustration to deep feelings of betrayal and abandonment. You may find yourself asking, “Can I trust you again?” or “Can I ever count on you in the future?” These are the core emotional injuries we address in Infidelity Counselling, offering couples the opportunity to heal, rebuild trust, and move forward.
If you were the partner who strayed, seeing the pain you've caused can also be devastating. The guilt, shame, and fear of losing your partner can feel unbearable. Being confronted about an affair brings up intense emotional conflict and can make past contributions or relationship strengths feel meaningless. This is where expert Marriage Counselling for Infidelity makes a vital difference.
Infidelity can certainly devastate a marriage, but it is not the end. I’ve had the privilege of walking alongside many couples through Infidelity Counselling Singapore, helping them recover, heal, and ultimately build stronger, more secure relationships. With the right support, it is possible to restore connection, deepen understanding, and grow both as individuals and as a couple.
Don't lose hope. Give your marriage the opportunity to address the wounds caused by infidelity. This can be a turning point—not just to survive the crisis, but to grow and thrive within your relationship and as a person.
Feeling unsure about whether to stay in a relationship or part ways is a tough place to be. Couple Counselling Singapore offers a safe, supportive space for both partners to explore their emotions and understand what’s driving their ambivalence. With the right guidance, couples can gain clarity, improve communication, and reconnect emotionally. Even those in early-stage relationships often seek pre-marital counselling in Singapore to align expectations before marriage.
Using approaches like Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (EFCT), Couple Counselling Singapore helps partners recognize unhelpful patterns and uncover deeper emotional needs and fears. Whether you choose to rebuild your relationship or part ways, counselling ensures that decisions are made thoughtfully and respectfully for both individuals.
We also provide expert Infidelity Counselling Singapore to support couples in healing after betrayal, offering a path to rebuild trust and emotional connection.
No one is forced to stay or leave. Instead, the focus is on working together to make the best decision for your future. Discover how a marriage therapist in Singapore can guide you through this process. Whether you are married or preparing to marry, support from a qualified relationship therapist is key.
Winny has been practising counselling since 2007, bringing a wealth of experience in supporting couples and individuals dealing with various relationship issues. She specialises in helping those facing high conflict, communication breakdowns, infidelity, betrayal trauma, ambivalence in relationships, childhood trauma, and family dynamics. Her compassionate approach provides valuable support to those navigating distressing situations, helping them find clarity and healing.
Winny’s primary therapeutic approach is grounded in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), an evidence-based method rooted in attachment theory. She works with couples, individuals, and families to address a wide range of issues, fostering deeper emotional connections and healing. As a marriage counsellor, Winny helps couples navigate their most challenging moments and build healthier, more enduring relationships.
As a Certified EFT Trainer-in-Training, Supervisor and Therapist affiliated with the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT), Winny has developed extensive expertise in the field. She also contributes to the profession by teaching a Couple Counselling Module at a local university and overseeing The Singapore Community for Emotionally Focused Therapy (SGEFT), where she provides supervision and training to therapists and mental health professionals learning EFT.
She has been providing Infidelity Counselling Singapore for many years and has also conducted professional training titled "Healing from Infidelity with EFT," where she shares her clinical experience, knowledge, and therapeutic skills with other marriage counsellors and couple therapists supporting individuals and couples through infidelity in Singapore and Southeast Asia.
Our marriage hit rock bottom struggling with infidelity, gambling debts and suicides. Just as I was about to give up in this marriage, I approached Winny. I had wanted to seek counselling for myself. Little did I expect that Winny ask to see my spouse too.
She put us on individual counselling sessions for a period of time. When situations were stable and we were more ready, she brought us together into couples counselling sessions.
Winny has journeyed with us through these most difficult times of our lives. She even met up our eldest boy, who was quite affected by us, to counsel him. She has the heart to want to help and make things better for the whole family.
Sometimes there were things in my head that I could not seem to rationalize. She can always help me to straighten my thoughts. It’s very easy to talk to her as I find that she grasps the situations fast and right.
Through the couple counselling sessions, Winny helped us to see the wrong dynamics we had in our marriage in the past. Our marriage took a turn for the better.
We are in a new marriage with the same partner.
We can communicate with each other better and
our children are happy.
We are very thankful to Winny for believing in us and helping us to find healing and restoration when our marriage seems shattered beyond repair. I would recommend anyone who needs infidelity counselling to Winny.
(Name withheld for privacy reasons)
My life went into the dark when I was engaged in an extramarital affair. I subjected myself to lies, heavy gambling, neglecting work and even suicide threats. Most importantly I put my wife and family through an enduring and devastating time.
My marriage was on the brink of an end,
until Winny helped us to think rationally and understand the roots of our issues.
I had never been an open-minded or vocal person,
often unwilling to share. In the sessions of individual counselling, Winny provided a safe environment for me to share and express my feelings. It helped me understood how important my wife and family are to me.
During couple counselling, Winny provided us a safe platform to express and understand more about each other’s true feelings and intent behind our words and actions.
It helped to bring us to know we truly want our marriage to be. Winny had also been professional and patience with me throughout the course of the counselling, not giving it up, even as I had repeatedly lied and failed.
She has kept and persisted with us throughout this infidelity counselling journey. My wife and I now had found the right dynamics in our marriage now, thanks to Winny. We are grateful to Winny in helping us heal, restore, open up and build our marriage.
(Name withheld for privacy reasons)
My seemingly perfect life took a 180-degree turn when I discovered my husband’s affair in 2024. For the sake of our young children, I decided to give him one chance to salvage our relationship when he begged for forgiveness. That is when we started infidelity counselling with Winny.
After uncovering the affair, I tried to cope by keeping myself busy and suppressing any unpleasant feelings. Winny quickly recognized this and guided me in identifying and unpacking negative emotions such as fear, resentment, and disappointment, allowing myself to grieve. Over time, I found myself handling triggers much better with this approach.
The biggest question after the affair was—why did he do it? With Winny’s facilitation, we pinpointed that my husband’s tendency to avoid conflicts was a key factor, possibly stemming from his childhood experiences. Whenever we disagreed, instead of confronting the issue, he would escape and seek relief from other sources, such as alcohol and ultimately, the affair.
Once we recognized this, Winny provided practical strategies to navigate our marriage conflicts. She taught me how to communicate more effectively by expressing my feelings clearly instead of resorting to accusations. She also created a safe space for us to reflect on our arguments and helped us identify destructive patterns that were damaging our connection. Through regular marriage counselling sessions with Winny, we were able to have meaningful discussions like never before, deepening our bond.
My husband became a changed man after the affair. Before it happened, he had been blinded by worldly pursuits. Even though we spent a lot of time together as a family and as a couple, he was often emotionally absent. The affair became a revelation and a turning point for him—it made him realize what he could have lost: his family, his everything. Now, he sees me with a new level of admiration and has become a more present and loving husband and father.
(Name withheld for privacy reasons)