infidelity counselling singapore
Couple/Marriage counselling for Infidelity: Heal and Strengthen your marriage
When you discover that you are not "the only one" to your partner, it can feel like your world is falling apart. The person you love the most has caused the deepest pain. The emotional reactions to such a revelation can be overwhelming—ranging from anger, sadness, and frustration to deep feelings of betrayal and abandonment. You may find yourself asking, “Can I trust you again?” or “Can I ever count on you in the future?” These are the core emotional injuries we address in Infidelity Counselling, offering couples the opportunity to heal, rebuild trust, and move forward.
If you were the partner who strayed, seeing the pain you've caused can also be devastating. The guilt, shame, and fear of losing your partner can feel unbearable. Being confronted about an affair brings up intense emotional conflict and can make past contributions or relationship strengths feel meaningless. This is where expert Marriage Counselling for Infidelity makes a vital difference.
Infidelity can certainly devastate a marriage, but it is not the end. I’ve had the privilege of walking alongside many couples through Infidelity Counselling Singapore, helping them recover, heal, and ultimately build stronger, more secure relationships. With the right support, it is possible to restore connection, deepen understanding, and grow both as individuals and as a couple.
Don't lose hope. Give your marriage the opportunity to address the wounds caused by infidelity. This can be a turning point—not just to survive the crisis, but to grow and thrive within your relationship and as a person.
Outcomes: Forgiveness, Reconciliation & Reconnection
principal therapist
Winny Lu Aldridge, Certified EFCT, EFIT, and EFFT (Emotionally Focused Couple, Individual, and Family Therapy) Trainer Candidate, Supervisor and Therapist
Winny has been practising counselling since 2007, bringing a wealth of experience in supporting couples and individuals dealing with various relationship issues. She specialises in helping those facing high conflict, communication breakdowns, infidelity, betrayal trauma, ambivalence in relationships, childhood trauma, and family dynamics. Her compassionate approach provides valuable support to those navigating distressing situations, helping them find clarity and healing.
Winny’s primary therapeutic approach is grounded in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), an evidence-based method rooted in attachment theory. She works with couples, individuals, and families to address a wide range of issues, fostering deeper emotional connections and healing. As a marriage counsellor, Winny helps couples navigate their most challenging moments and build healthier, more enduring relationships.
As a Certified EFT Trainer-in-Training, Supervisor and Therapist affiliated with the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT), Winny has developed extensive expertise in the field. She also contributes to the profession by teaching a Couple Counselling Module at a local university and overseeing The Singapore Community for Emotionally Focused Therapy (SGEFT), where she provides supervision and training to therapists and mental health professionals learning EFT.
She has been providing Infidelity Counselling Singapore for many years and has also conducted professional training titled "Healing from Infidelity with EFT," where she shares her clinical experience, knowledge, and therapeutic skills with other marriage counsellors and couple therapists supporting individuals and couples through infidelity in Singapore and Southeast Asia.
Clinical Services
Individuals
Individuals
Individuals
- Stuck in relationship problems
- Depression and Anxiety
- Healing After a Break-up
- Insecurities due to childhood and negative past experience
Couples
Individuals
Individuals
- Conflict and Differences
- Breakdown in Communication
- Lack of Emotional Connection
- Relationship Challenges
- Infidelity, cheating, and Extramarital Affair
Families
Clinical Supervision for Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Clinical Supervision for Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Family relationship issues
- Adjustment after life changes (divorce, relocation, grief & loss)
- Parent-child tension includes relationships with adult-children
Clinical Supervision for Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Clinical Supervision for Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Clinical Supervision for Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Provide EFIT, EFCT, and EFFT Clinical Supervision
- Focus on EFT Conceptualization
- Help you to improve your interventions/skills
- Certification and growth support